Anya HayesApr 23, 20175 min readWho’s that girl?The subject of identity keeps poking its little head out of mouse holes at me a lot recently. The idea of who we are once we’ve had...
Anya HayesApr 20, 20175 min readFreelance life: before vs after kidsMy name is Anya and I’m a freelance scrappy mishmash… er, sorry I mean, I’m a freelance writer/editor and proofreader/project...
Anya HayesApr 17, 20173 min readThings I’ve learntFreddie is now 2 years old. 2 YEARS OLD. Well, 2 and a quarter, if we’re being pedantic. I’ve learnt that with a 5 year old and a toddler...
Anya HayesApr 15, 20174 min readOpen your heartNot just a great Madonna track from the 80s (I can still picture the poster I had of her on my bedroom wall, in all her 80s legwarmer...
Anya HayesApr 6, 20172 min readMother’s Little HelperMotherhood – a state of being which often means that however sorted and competent you’re feeling – like me here, all dressed up at a...
Anya HayesMar 28, 20172 min readLook for the lightMums often talk about being in “survival mode” in the first years of motherhood. Of battening down the hatches to get through the days...
Anya HayesMar 18, 20173 min readThe Supermum MythAnd then, I have a week like this week which offered me a new perspective on that Supermum assumption. Yesterday I feel like I had a...
Anya HayesJan 8, 20173 min readFiring up the cylinders The idea of going to a Pilates class when you’re feeling low on energy is, sadly, an unappealing one. I’ve been there, at the end of a...
Anya HayesJan 8, 20173 min readThe Mum-me balance When I lived in Japan nearly 20 years ago (eek!), the local stray cat – who we had named Josephina – one evening roamed into our...
Anya HayesJan 8, 20173 min readThe A game Anxiety. The monkey that sits atop our shoulder, wriggling and jiggling, weighing down and informing thoughts, which become our...